In the bad old days before the little blue pills burst on to the market, no one liked to talk about sexual problems. It was all just too embarrassing, particularly because we all knew there was little medical science could do to solve the problems. So all this embarrassment was put into a box with the label “impotence” stuck on to the outside and it was put away on a high shelf where no one could see it by accident. Except, of course, this didn’t stop men from finding they did have problems and, if the news leaked out, these men found themselves the butt of jokes and, worse, mockery. We’ve never been very kind to each other when we all fear the same problems. So, working quietly in labs around the world, teams of researchers have been trying to solve a range of different sexual problems. For example, there are men who can achieve a hard erection but cannot then reach an orgasm. This is deeply frustrating for the man and, if the woman is interested in pregnancy, somewhat annoying. Less obvious but no less annoying when it becomes apparent are those men who do have an orgasm but do not ejaculate, or only produce very low volumes of sperm, or do not produce active sperm. Fertility is something that can only be proved by scientific test and it’s not unknown for women to ask for sperm samples for testing before agreeing to marriage. All this before we get to the men who don’t produce an erection.
Sex is a complicated area of medicine because it mixes physical ability into social situations. If the body fails, it may be because the mind is not involved. It’s a fact no man produces an erection unless he finds the situation sexually stimulating. So if he’s not genuinely attracted to the woman, there will be no erection. That’s why erectile dysfunction and depression are always linked. When the man grows too sad, he fails to find any situation sexually simulating. When this happens, the only medical solution is treating the depression. None of the erectile dysfunction drugs will have any effect until the mind heals itself.
Unfortunately, there are no signs of any breakthroughs on the horizon on any of these other problems. That’s why, with more men experiencing low fertility, there’s increasing pressure on adoption agencies. If there are not enough children locally, many Americans have been adopting children from abroad. This has become controversial as have agreements for surrogates to bear a child for a couple. Yet, without there being any prospects of a quick medical fix, childless couples are finding life increasingly difficult as the number of children born is also declining. Even though the pro-life movement has reduced the number of abortions, this has had no real effect as more couples have been deciding either not to produce children or delaying it until later.
For couples who are fertile but the man is having problems with erectile dysfunction, Cialis is the best answer. Whether in the as-needed or once-daily form, erections usually return the first time you use the drug. But do not be deceived by any of the advertising that might suggest wider uses. Cialis is only effective in treating erectile dysfunction.